Terrence M. Gilbride ’88

Segment Synopsis: Terrence Gilbride reflects on his life before law, sharing insights about his upbringing in Hamburg, New York, where his family ran bars and restaurants. Growing up just miles from Buffalo's stadium, Terry recounts how his family's restaurant and bar business shaped his work ethic and customer service skills, ultimately guiding his decision to pursue law. As the first lawyer in his family, he recounts his decision to attend the University at Buffalo for law school, drawn by its reputation and affordability. Terry discusses the challenges he faced as a young student among older peers and how he gradually gained confidence. He highlights influential professors and courses that shaped his understanding of transactional law, illustrating how these experiences prepared him for a successful legal career. Through humor and nostalgia, Terry illustrates the lessons learned from his past, emphasizing the importance of education and family support in shaping his journey.

Keywords: Caliber of Students; Choosing UB Law School; Class Composition; Experience as Student; Faculty / Professors; Legal Education; Undergraduate Education; Family

Subjects: EDUCATION; UB LAW AS STUDENT; FAMILY HISTORY

Segment Synopsis: Terry Gilbride shares his experiences of forming lasting friendships during law school, emphasizing the camaraderie that developed among classmates. He recounts connections with peers like Melanie Tisdale, Norman Viti, Terry Flynn, Randy Sarnacki, Charlie Desmond and his partners at Hugh Russ, Chris Doyle, Willie Schoellkopf who played at his wedding and recently passed, highlighting the deep bonds forged through shared experiences and the legal journey. Terry also discusses meeting his wife, Jane, while working in a restaurant, illustrating how personal and professional lives often intertwine in unexpected ways. He emphasizes the importance of mentorship, naming influential figures who shaped his career. Through his narrative, Terry conveys valuable lessons about listening, building relationships, and the privilege of solving problems for others, providing insights for aspiring lawyers navigating their own paths.

Keywords: Accomplishments; Class Composition; Classes; Continuing Role; Contributions; Experience as Student; Law Firms; Legal Community; Legal Education; Mentors

Subjects: CAREER: LEGAL; FAMILY HISTORY; PROFESSIONAL EXPERIENCE; UB LAW AS STUDENT